Ok, and? #02
Your average Eastern European couple thinks your list of standards is very funny
Man I don't get this thing where Americans have an opinion on everything and are obsessed with everyone else's lives and judge them by comparing them to one particular set of standards.
Yes certain things are universal — athleticism, height, good character, fashion, healthy lifestyle, etc.
In Eastern Europe, if you are just a chill young dude of a normal height, add or take a bit from the average height, half skinny with decent hygiene, play a sport and have a few close friends, you have equal chances of having a smoking hot girlfriend of your age as the mid 30s businessman who drives a porsche, no matter if they're 6'5 or 5'6; or as the late 20s elf looking aspiring male models who are obsessed with their routines
People are different, some 5'8 guys have a brother who's 6'1 from the same parents, some guys are 6' but their torso is so long it looks like they are 5'8 from photos no matter how you anglemaxx it, some guys are naturally more emotionally intelligent, some guys are more mathematically autistic, some guy have sharp jaws others have square jaws, some are just naturally pale as shit while others are naturally tan, some get like half a face of acnes from eating like a bag of fries while others eat burgers every day for a week and their skin doesn't see a bump
The point is, you need to radiate positive energy. Your cards have been dealt to you. If you are a fish, don't try to become a bird because the ideal of a bird is so "aristocratic" and "chad like" to you; conversely, judging others like this also says things about you.
All that cartoonish descriptions of chad vs average men from closeted homosexuals and the sexually and romantically frustrated late 20s early 30s something women is literally too funny in contrast.
Too often I see shockingly beautiful and angelic (not hot, notice the wording) 19 year old girls strolling down Knez Mihailova in downtown Belgrade with some broke dork of average height who they probably met in class in university, and some businessman in their mercedes gle with their late 20s looking girl with fillers everywhere on her face, highlighted fake blonde hair and plastic breasts sticking out in her low cut dress, looking very emotionless and bored, I could not even be sure if that’s because of all the botox or she’s just an escort.
What do you think that means?
That's how you know someone has never had a real friend and experienced real connections. If you fuck with each other then you fuck with each other, platonic or not, simple as that.
In the post pandemic America, it seems like a lot of people forgot what is normal and what it means to be normal. You need to be some sort of startup founder at 16 years old and raise 5 million USD minimum from investors to flex on your fellow Asians who base their whole human worth on how successful they are; the average height is no longer the average height — you are average and only acceptable at 15th percentile; the “actual” and “acceptable” average income for her to settle down with you is the 10th percentile in the labour force; you need to be the most aryan nordic white because it is aristocratic and everyone else is dirty filthy untouchable mud blood — the closer your genetic lineage is to northern europeans the more aristocratic you are; the only people worth a second of her attention is famous musicians, D1 athletes and generic successful businessmen, the rest feels like they have some genetic flaw that you’d rather see them die or because she does not see any value she could extract.
To them it’s all about money, power and fame. Nothing else is worth pursuing in America. They lost they only real connection they’ve ever had with a boy in their life when they lost contact with the boy they lost their innocence to; or worse, they lost all their faith in men way younger because of their incompetent, uninspiring, weak and timid father or some other male family members.
So they start their little schemes, “fuck real love, what can I get out of talking to a man from now on?” Then there you have their little increasingly long lists of requirements.
As long as Americans idolize genius tech billionaires, tech founders, elite athletes, mega famous musicians or anyone in the top 1% in their realm, the list will stay around. Until then the real average will always be perceived subpar.
On a greater scale you call it pushing the economy forward by socially engineering the perception of average to move up year by year — yeah probably because making guys spend an increasingly unhealthy amount of time to look like an over-groomed homosexual help promote sales in cosmetics, supplements and fitness industry.
I remember something that resonated with me a lot when I first read it, unsurprisingly from Oscar Wilde,
Everything in moderation, including moderation.
It’s up to you to decide how much of working is to respect your past self and become better everyday, and how much is to mog other guys and ask her to pick you. Notice how funny when I worded it out. Lmao
If you are already playing a sport, doing basic grooming that takes no longer than 30 minutes a day, able to make conversations with anyone you want, and generally a chill dude of average height and normal bmi — congrats, you already mog the majority of dudes your age. Whoever that judge and look down upon you have some issues themselves. A lot of them are the equivalent of making a teacher’s salary while wanting a Mercedes c class and thinking that her husband’s Toyota pickup truck is embarrassing.
Till next time,
Preston